Ready for sex but my breasts are small
March 12th, 2010 by Samantha
FREE Confidential Report: "The Real Answers to
Your Biggest Questions About 'The First Time'"!
- Are you nervous about pain and discomfort?
- Wondering who to "lose it" with?
- Just want to be great in bed?
Just fill out this quick form and I'll send a FREE report that's personalized with the answers to your most urgent questions! (And it's 100% private, so nobody will know you're reading it!)
This information will NEVER be shared with anyone
else.
Click here
for my privacy policy.
Hi Samantha,
My names Itzel and I’m under the age of 18. I personally think I’m ready for sex but at the same time I have worries. One of my worries is that I don’t have big breasts so I don’t feel confident about my boyfriend seeing me nude. Could you please help me out on this one?
Itzel
Dear Itzel,
I had the same worries about my boobs when I was your age!
But here’s the thing, guys care way more about how you act naked, than they do about any “imperfections” you may have. If a girl looked perfect naked but she was so embarrassed that she was constantly trying to hide her body from her boyfriend, how fun do you think that would be? And here’s another thing, your boyfriend may be feeling the same way about something on his body, wondering if his penis looks too small/weird to you/whatever….or he may be worried about getting too excited and ejaculating too soon.
The point is that everyone feels not so confident about something when it comes to getting naked, but if you can get past that and focus on all the other great things about sex, then you’ll both have a lot more fun. I’m sure your boyfriend already knows you don’t have big breasts, you don’t have to see someone naked to find that out. He probably doesn’t even care (believe it or not, not ALL guys like them big) and he’ll probably just be very happy to see you naked at all!
It may be hard, but my advice is to act confident about your breasts and then one day you will feel confident about them. Guys are attracted to confidence - you can trust me on this one!
Good luck!
Samantha
Leave a Comment
Read this before posting! This site deals with some personal, sensitive information, so I review all comments before approving them to keep the discussion friendly.
I do my best to post all comments without changing them! However, if your post threatens the safety of my readers in any way (or if I feel like you're just a nasty person) then whatever you wrote gets deleted. You can be sad, happy, positive, negative, whatever... just don't be mean. Or bad.
Anonymous comments are totally welcome if you don't want to share your name, email address, or any other personal information.